“I am such like that when they swear at the Hungarians, I am a great Hungarian ... when they swear at the Slovaks, I am a great Slovak.”
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Eva Tokodi Adamík was born on December 16, 1950 in Komárno. Father Ján Adamík was born in 1906 and came from an agricultural family from Horný Tisovník. He has always worked as a sailor on the Danube. Mother Irena, as single Tortéšiová, was eight years younger than her husband and worked as a nurse in a hospital. Since Ján had to be hospitalized for typhus, life arranged a meeting of two young people. The wedding took place in Komárno in 1933 and their first child, Eva’s older brother Vladimír, was born later, in 1947. Although Ján was Slovak, he spoke the hungarian language, which was a necessity in his case, as Eva’s mother grew up in a hungarian household and she came into contact with the slovak language very sporadically. It was quite common in the household that Eva communicated with her father in slovak and with her mother exclusively in hungarian. In 1952, Eva’s mother Irena succeeded in carrying out a heroic act in which she helped to escape beyond the borders of the Reitman jewish family. Today, then only a four-year-old boy, Ivan is a well-known Slovak-Canadian director, who decided to awaken his memories and contacted Eva. However, this heroic act, which went smoothly, did not end well for Irena. After her assignment, she was imprisoned for two years. The consequences also had an impact on the period after leaving prison, as the Adamík family was monitored by the State security service for many years. The witness of history graduated from a grammar school, followed by external study from a medical and later a university of economics. Eva started working in a local czech company and in 1977 she married a man of hungarian nationality. In 1983 and 1984, their sons Šándor and Tomáš were born. Eva currently lives in Hungary, settling mainly due to the education of her sons. She has accepted hungarian citizenship, but still loves her hometown.